I haven’t written for
a while – haven’t even been on Facebook either.
It’s not that nothing has happened in my life, rather that too much
has. I hardly know where to start.
First HUGE thing, on
19th March 2015, our daughter gave birth to a baby girl whom they
have named Jemima Joy. After all these
years of waiting we are grandparents – and I can tell you it is totally
awesome. I mean that in both the modern
and the literal senses of the word J. This tiny, beautiful scrap of a
baby and I am her grandmother – what an honour and what a responsibility.
We have been living
6000 miles away from our daughters, but now this has to change. The trouble is that we really like living in
Cape Town, and we enjoy the outdoor lifestyle which the weather affords. My husband, Colin, loves his golf – but is
the first to admit he is a fair weather golfer – so not for him the donning of
heavy waterproofs and playing in rain and snow (joke I think – they wouldn’t see
the ball in the snow J but we have
known some very hardy golfers). But we
definitely need to spend more time in England.
Fortunately we both have dual citizenship so there are no nasty visa
problems.
While we were over
meeting Jemima we visited out other daughter, who was about to qualify as a
vet, and received the amazing and very welcome news that we were to be grandparents
again. Come November we are to have
another granddaughter! What was that
joke about buses?
All in all this has
turned out to be a very expensive year for us.
We will have made four (!) trips to the UK – starting with February when
we flew over for the funeral of Colin’s aunt to whom we were very close, then
April to meet Jemima, July for the graduation (arranged over 5 years ago), and
now we will be over for Christmas and at the same time meet our new
granddaughter. We are not wealthy
people so this has made a huge hole in our capital – but from next year we plan
to become ‘swallows’ spending half the year in England and half in South
Africa. So only one return trip a year,
with our dogs. A neighbour has kindly
offered to look after the cat while we are away. Unfortunately our daughters live several
hours drive from each other so that is a logistical problem of its own.
I tend to have a low
boredom threshold but right now I am in no danger of being bored J
Till next time J